Auntie Mame
by vyyvaa
My idea of a woman pretty much circles around Auntie Mame, she is an experimentalist, culture-rich, and Devoted to those she love. i must admit, i share with her the quick boredom and continuous jumping from one topic to another.
some questions seem so intensely simple, yet need alot of thinking to get an answer…
What is the most important thing you want to achieve?
I want to achieve success in everything that i do.. in myself, my family, my little family, and my work. i need to think of my life a s portfolio as sections, slices of a cake that i need to address one by one. small goals to bigger goals, durations and longer durations..
Resolutions
i looked at my 2008 resolutions and i’ve completed 3 and working on the rest, that’s probably why i write a lot of resolutions, so my chances of doing more increase.
Eligible Women
where are you women? eligible girls? thin, white, tall, well educated, beautiful, and ‘from certain families’ kind of girls? wainkom? and if i’ve already paid attention to you? what’s the dealio?? why can’t you just say yes to the right eligible guy??!
Hajar Update
she is 6 months now, Ot is crazy about her, i’m head over heals for her, Mom considers her, her baby project, and she now crawls, eager to stand, laughs out loud, and has two little front teeth! her words?
da da da da da da da da da da
no mama or papa yet
Ot update
since our marriage he changed cars more than 4 times, the last car he had he’s now gonna sell it after an accident that he safely survived from, now he bought a 1996 used jeep, somehow i consider this a family-thought idea and his mind is growing out of the car’s era, or maybe, just maybe, his new fetish is old used cars? 🙂
us update
we are going to Hajj, al jeeran hajj group, i’m very happy, this is the resolution i so much wanted to do! i honestly believe i sacrifised alot to make sure this resolutiuon stands.
news update
Obama…
Ram..
Jews..
Democracy
African American
practice self restraint…
Vyyvaa Planet 
please give baby hajar a huge hug from me 🙂 i bet u will love to 😉
congrats girl for achieveing some of your resolutions mashalah great job
i did achieved one closed my Visa and i am working on the 2nd which is to loose waight hehe bas hatha elee gedrt 3aleeh
my husband is the same he just bought a 1996 car ambeeh i guess now it`s habaa been el shbab 3laa el old cars
he sold his banshies we l syakel so i guess he started to think more about us
alaah ysahel 3aleekom el 7aj yaraab o plz plz ed3eele
q8pride.. unbelievable mirror of me ?!!!! shesalfa!
babe i want pic of hajaaar!!
esmila 3alaiha ..
well 3 is definitly better than none
wnshallah ull achieve everything u want
Dear lady V,
it is good to plan things in advice and it is even better when you accomplish them. be proud of yourself. to make you feel better, put that in percantage where you what is your accamplishment in numbers.
can you please bite hajer for me. a bite that would make her cry. 🙂
thanks
Me
in advance
eshda3wa.. im gonna try to take a close up of her two teeth 🙂
hamoor.. don’t i get you man? 🙂
in percent
1. have at least 4 months of maternity leave 100%
2. dye my hair provocative color 100%
3. have a family vacation (I’m not yet sure if its my first mini family trip, or my own family trip) 0%
4. save 10% of my salary 100%
5. cash out two financial commitments ahead of schedule 100%
6. Learn about plants, and start having some in the apartment. 100%
7. perform Hajj 50% ( i paid, not yet time to go)
8. Finish the pending work project due September 2008. 60% (final report)
9. Lose the pregnancy weight before end of year. 70% (lost most of it)
what do u know… i actually did better than i expected 🙂
Good new Lady,
so you did 76% of your gools. which is fine. you are almost there…. dying your hair is an acheifment ? I dont get it. 😛
yes. if u dared to do something you never did before, it is.
so what did u do this year hamoor?
Well,
UmMmm…
1.I wanted to get merried again. did not happend .. or could not find the right one.
2. saved some money.
3. established my own company.
4. just started a diet.
5. buy new car. not yet
6. wanted to travel to sharm and istanbul. I did.
7. many other stuff cant remember now. didnt accomplish.
still I am self satisfid.
what approach are you using to find the ‘right’ girl?
well,
how to answer your question..
search through: 1. Family.
2. Family Friends.
3. friends.
4. Females Co-worker.
How to know if she is the “right” is a totally a different story plus a long proccess.
it is by asking:
1. who is her mother and how is her mother
2. who is her friends ? and ask about her friends.
3. I unusally go all the way to her work and check and try to set with her if it is a bank I will act if I m clainet. if it is in wezara.. I have other way to do that.
4. where did she study is a BIG THING for me.
5. I have million way to check… this is the basics. 😛
Abeee Maaraaaaaa saan3aaa… a lady who has habbies, know a bit about everythings, takhaf allaah feiny, smart, has ambition, plans. someone I can be honest with and clear and know my good intentions. not a women who you have to choose your words very carefull with before you talk, because she count every F****** word comeing out of my mouth. I dont want a women who want just to live a love story without knowing the reality. I dont want someone who always say, wooow look at those couples EShawgoon… way CUTE… look at these how they hold hands… and come at night saying I saw those couples who were doing this and this .. why dont you do that. bass…
gemt akhoorraa ana
with your approach. i am sure you came close so many times…
but two things stood your way
family name
reputation
am i right?
My Dearest,
is there doesnt care about the family name. if I didnt care my family will. and for reputation !! sure I dont want to marry a used one. (I dont mean divorced one). Abeehaaa ebgara6eess-Haa 😛
but more important is the personality. that what kills me. I dont want someone who is san3a and welnee3em bass naag6aa… Personality is a BIG ISSUE for me.
yes, you are RIGHT.
hamoor. . join in my bro’s wagon, we find the perfect girl then her mom is from this family… we find one that fits that category but she is ‘used’ , we find one… oh…we didnt yet.. thats why i totally get you. i’m not gonna say good luck, u obviously make ur own luck in kuwait. to be honest we actually came close a couple of times but the grils were then too demanding.
tabe esij, i believe kuwaiti girls are quiet impressive when it comes to accomplishments and personality, but some of them lack in what they can’t control ‘family’ and most lack in a bigger issue that they most definitely control ‘ reputation’.
by the way… why are you not blogging?
Don’t know why… Maybe not time! or I might be very open about many subjects that some pople might find offinsive?! really dunno.
the answer is Madree 😛