When you are confronted head on by the opposite product of your charasteric options; you may be in contact with a giant list of traits that you desire and do not enjoy recieving. And to add insult to injury; you opposite product is happily involved. This may not be the insult as it is; but the fact someone else is smarter (or is it luckier?) to get the creme de la creme.
Its easy to start comparing; and this is when thin lines are crossed; possibly hurting people along the way… I say better to just sit on bench while watching superior product and just enjoy the view; work with what you have.